Finding Hope in Unexpected Places: My Sign from a Hospital Visit

I had hoped that 2025 would be a peaceful year. As I was nearing the end of my recovery from breast cancer, I wanted to shift my focus—I began exploring courses and certifications to keep myself inspired and centered on something positive. I sought something that would aid my healing and possibly help me connect with like-minded individuals. I was in search of something spiritual and had a strong desire to learn something new that could be shared with others. My curiosity led me to explore various topics until one day I discovered a Zoom link for a virtual women's circle. This was the start of an amazing journey that ultimately led me to train and become a certified Divine Feminine Healing Practitioner. I recognize there's still a lot to learn, but I've come to see that my life experiences have led me to this point. I'm really excited about creating a space for women to come together, share their stories, and draw strength from our shared experiences.

Yesterday, I spent most of the day at the hospital for scans and my follow-up mammogram. I have a little story to share about my experience. While there, I was drawn to a table where two women were selling jewelry. I've been thinking about getting a ring to symbolize a full circle, a completion of sorts from the past year, ideally with rose quartz. I had a very clear idea of what I wanted the ring to look and feel like. In short, I found the perfect ring. It's beautiful, simple yet bold and strong. But it was also about the incredible interaction I had with these two strangers, who quickly became my angels, offering me a sense of connection when I needed it most. Within minutes, we shared that we both had breast cancer, a bit about ourselves, and then I found myself embraced by this stranger, tears streaming down my face. She asked, "Can I give you a hug?" I knew she was going to ask it, I could feel it coming and I wanted it. I didn't realize how much I needed that hug—and something about it felt as if it were also from my mom (who has passed)—it's hard to describe. The warmth, love, and care felt so genuine and meaningful, beyond what a perfect stranger could offer—it felt like I had been wrapped in home—like coming home to myself again. Like a full circle and strong reassurance, lots of feelings that are hard to put into words, but I hope you can get a sense of what I'm trying to explain.

If you want to find your perfect ring, visit Gems by Jael at Sick Kids where she has a shop or www.gemsbyjael.com—her tagline is "Find Your Different." I love that.

the other woman was Christine, she asked for my name and contact information, which I gladly provided. We were discussing my uncle who had just passed away, and I mentioned that it had been a really difficult week for me. She casually mentioned that she runs women's circles and would say a special little something in the next circle. I LIT UP, i felt my light shine again—I've been searching for a sign, contemplating the timing, and considering different ideas and names for my circle. I had even brought along my book that covers various aspects of running a circle, tucked away in my bag with my snacks and sparkling water to read and pass the time. I pulled it out to show her, and we just smiled—a connection—humans and strangers living from the same kind of energy and kindness—my people, I thought—these women are my people. If this wasn't a sign, I don't know what is. I hope to attend Christines circle sometime soon.

Those 15 minutes spent connecting with other women in a safe space (ironically, in the middle of a hospital hallway) were truly a blessing, as I felt supported and understood with kindness, love, and compassion. After receiving one final hug from each of them, I moved on to my last test. Lying on the table, I held onto my new ring, feeling comforted by the belief that it symbolized everything would be alright.

Last night, the weather was intense, with the wind howling and my dog terrified by the thunder and lightning. The energy was incredibly strong, similar to what many of us have been experiencing in recent months and weeks. If you follow the moon phases and astrology, you're aware that some significant events are occurring. I read about a rare, once-in-a-lifetime transit that is ushering us into a new era—the first in 164 years. This period is marked by heightened consciousness, spirituality, and intuition, prompting many of us to choose or be guided towards living more authentically as our "soul self." So, I am embarking on this new chapter. I want to create a gathering that honors every phase of life, calling it Full Circle: Honoring Every Phase, Embracing Every Cycle. This circle will hold safe space and represent life's transitions and the power of sharing experiences. The idea came to me yesterday, and when I revisited it in the middle of the night as the storm began to calm and my dog finally settled, I knew that "Full Circle" was the perfect name.

I plan to take some time to meditate and gain a clear vision. There are still a few things I need to explore and several people I need to speak with. I will begin gathering all the necessary supplies, setting intentions, and dreaming up truly beautiful themes. I've begun gathering essentials that inspire warmth and connection. I'll incorporate oracle cards for guidance, dried flowers to add a hint of nature's beauty, and cozy cushions and blankets. I've already found the perfect little teacups and have a bowl of pinecones that my husband is curious about. I love this part of the planning. Creating a circle involves envisioning potential venues and dates, usually planned around cycles, moon phases, and seasons, to name a few. I am reading all these amazing stories of elders and wise women from the past who held circles all over the world; the history of the circle is very powerful and empowering. Doesn't it just seem like the perfect time to bring this offering into our lives and communities? I am eager to learn from the wisdom of friends, neighbors, and new acquaintances who will join me. Together, we will build a thriving community where everyone feels welcomed and accepted. It will be a place of nourishment—physically, emotionally, and spiritually—where every woman leaves feeling more whole than when she arrived.

Whether you're looking to connect with like-minded women, embarking on a healing journey and wanting to try something new, or if you've attended a circle before and wish to join again, I hope you'll be part of this little dream of mine that I'm excited to create. It will be woven with supportive women and centered on self-love, nourishment, resilience, and finding joy amidst life's chaos. In Full Circle: Honoring Every Phase, we will come together as a community to navigate transitions. This is a space for personal growth and relationship building, where women empower each other to embrace their uniqueness. If you're seeking a safe space to share your story and find healing, please consider joining our circle. Together, we'll honor every transition, cherish our experiences, and celebrate joyful moments.

I feel grateful for the unexpected journeys that have brought me here. Life often surprises us, presenting connections and opportunities when we least expect them. if you are interested or curious in attending the first Full Circle, please reach out to me at projectshinelifecoachig@gmail.com or nathealy08@gmail.com or just add your name in the comments below and I will get in touch. I hope to have something really special planned for end of Spring, start of Summer. in the meantime, As Always, take good care. XO.